Does being a woman automatically make me a mother? I'm already a mother to a 2-year-old Maine Coon cat. Isn't that enough? Later on, I started thinking about what might happen if my boyfriend and I do get our act together and settle down. I don't know that I have the wife gene either. What if settling isn't actually what I want? What if that's just the lie I have been telling myself because it's expected of me?
I don't like playing games - no one should. I especially don't like or appreciate when guys play games because that's not how I date. Playing games tells me that you're not looking for something real, even if you tell me you are, and it tells me that you don't have the decency to tell… Continue reading Texts Unread
I became a "mom" this past August...and then again, in November. Just because my children are furry, four-legged, and have claws it doesn't make me any less of a mother. I keep a roof over their heads and food in their bowls, even when I don't have a whole lot of food for myself. I… Continue reading Life as a (Cat) Mom
When was the last time you had sex? Go on...really think about this. Was it last night? Maybe it was last week? Was it perhaps last month? It could have been last year. I want you to stop and ask yourself, "When was the last time you had mind-blowing, bed-breaking, headboard smashing, insanely wild sex?"… Continue reading Sex: It’s in All of Us
I moved into my apartment all on my own, and I NEVER planned on having a roommate. Then, I met Cooper - the domestic, long-haired cat in my life, and within 24 hours there was a little man living here. He is only a year old, but it is like having a young child as… Continue reading Living with Cooper